In our own way, we all have struggles to deal with throughout the Christmas season. I had survived the decorating with uncooperative lights, which was probably my biggest nemesis. Although Christmas without Daniel was going to be my biggest hardship. There is also all the extra calories (weight) to slough off from the holiday eating I started a month ago at Thanksgiving. But, lets face it, we should look at the positives, which far outweigh the negatives... and realize the struggles make us stronger and more appreciative. Like Charlie Browne, we should do the best we can with what we have.
It was supposed to be sunny Saturday... but it started out gray and gloomy. Perfect for finishing up all my school work needed for the week we return. I was done at 9 am and did a happy dance. What a relief. Then it was on to laundry, putting flannel sheets on the three guest beds, and doing
all my once-a
week, weekend jobs. After filling the bird bath and feeder I had my normal visitors... not your usual song birds. I also continued work on flower beds so I wouldn't have to look at the dead stuff all winter.
Sunday we went to early Church so we could spend the nice day outside working. I used the tractor to move lime from the storage pile to the gate by Amiga's stall that was a muddy
mess from all the rain and horse traffic. Before I had gotten all the lime moved, I encountered tire problems. :-( Then Mark arrived with the round bale he was willing to sell us and we unloaded it back by the wood shed.
You can see how soggy the ground still is. Unloading went quick and easy. :-)
I had to switch to a shovel to neaten up the lime pile by the round bale. This was much more work, time consuming, and taxing on my wrist. The cows had been closed out of the paddock while we were working. Once the
gate was opened, they were quick to
come in and check out the new round bale, while the horses came to see what all the excitement was about.
Norman always leads the way while Babe brings up the rear. Roni is standing on the new lime, not mud.
Zorro watches Frankie
To the right, with Norman at the bale and Frankie approaching, you can see the nice neat lime pile.
The cows explored the new hay bale, circling it,
trying it out for a scratching post, and tasting it.
trying it out for a scratching post, and tasting it.
Frankie on the left, Norman and Babe on the right, finally decide to dig in.
While I was working in the paddock, Joe was in the chicken coop, completely cleaning it out... 6 full wheel barrow loads to the manure pile.
Then I went in to fill the feed bin.
Betty is always "helping" me out... especially when it involves food.
With her messed up beak, I view her as a real survivor.
I was using the blue scoop to take feed from each of the three bags.
As I poured the oats, cracked corn and layer feed in, I mixed as I went. Normally I pour it from the bags, but my wrist does not allow for such weight lifting yet.
Baby, who was near by, was second (after Betty) to sample the new feed mix. Notice how well her new feathers have come in.
After giving and grading an exam Monday, I headed to therapy and then did some Christmas shopping on the way home. We did not have Growth Group, so I puttsed around during chores, enjoying extra time with the animals. Below, Baby and Blackie are hiding in the ornamental grass.
I had tried to get some artsy pictures of this grass which really looks pretty this time of year. Wish I had the photo abilities of sister Carol. Part of my problem is my cheap camera.
Tuesday I gave, graded, and posted grades for my last exam. Then Joe and I headed for Chicago. We picked Britney up at O'Hare but unfortunately
her luggage did not arrive with her. Here she is
waiting at baggage claim. We checked in to the airport hotel and then went to dinner. Settling in back at the hotel, still with no suit case, Britney slept in her travel clothes.
We were up Wednesday morning by 5am... but there was still no suit case. We bid the hotel, with it's blue Christmas tree good bye...
and were off to Children's Hospital.
After Britney's 7 am MRI, we walked to the Zoo and toured it for over 2 hours.
It was cool, over cast, and damp... but we still enjoyed our walk and watching the animals.
....and I thought 3 ducks were messy.
As always, the apes were my favorite.
We had a nice lunch before heading back to Childern's to see the results and Drs. They were all happy to see Britney and said everything looks good. The shunt tube in her neck has been bothering her. It is made partly of barium so that it can be seen in scans. The body's cells typically are attracted to and tend to grow around the barium. So it makes the shunt a lot less flexible. This is what Britney
has been feeling in her neck.
It can cause the shunt to fracture or crack. This is not a concern yet but may become problematic in the future... and will then need to be replaced. The doctor said it should be fine for some time, but as soon as she gets hydro-cephalic headaches, it will be time for surgery.
Britney saying good bye to Dr. Goldman for another year. It has been a huge blessing to have such a wonderful Dr. The image below links you to a great video about him.
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Dr. Tomita who has also been a huge part of Britney's treatment is also seen in this video.
Once done at the hospital, we checked back with the airlines who still did not have Britney's suit case located, so we headed home without it.
Britney was glad to see her pets, and they to see her. Abbey, who always likes to be part of the action, decided she should join us for dinner.
Thursday morning Britney dropped me off for my therapy appointment and she went to her eye exam. Then we went to the B/N airport to pick up her suitcase which had finally arrived. After a long shopping trip, we returned home and started in on wrapping gifts... with a little help from Abbey.
We both actually stayed quite busy all day Thursday and Friday with preparations for Christmas, house guests, and Florida vacation... and we survived it all: laundry, packing, picking up around the house, cleaning, wrapping, trip to post office with letters and a package for Dan, met with Angie our house sitter, food preparation, etc. We managed to make it
through feeling quite merry, with
Christmas carols playing and snacking on Christmas goodies.
By the end of it all, we were pretty tired... ready to relax with the cat and dog... but then Joe's sisters Mary and Patty arrived and we proceeded to celebrate life together, having dinner and chatting into the evening.
We look forward (in spite of the busyness) to seeing many of you, along with participating in all the fun and festivities. Hope you all have a Blessed Christmas and can relax, enjoy, and survive the holidays.
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Hi Holly - Love your blog! Happiness to you, Joe and all your loved ones (bi and quadrapedal) this season...
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Julia & Gene Benjamin.
Love that the animals get in on the Christmas festivities - can't wait to skype with Daniel.
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